Today I’m discussing another item on my list of bad habits: comparison. I saw an old picture of a friend from High school and remembered how I spent a good part of a year mentally comparing the two of us and beating myself up about not being like her. Sometimes I still find myself engaging in this silly habit : so-and-so is prettier, more athletic, more organised etc

I’m currently on a journey to :

A. Stop caring so much what the other person is doing or saying.


B. Bask in the glory of the person I am. The messy, impatient, artsy, wonderful being that is Tokoni Uti.

More and more I appreciate the person I am and grow to love her a little bit more everyday and I implore you all to do the same.